since i was already at the honda dealer today picking up an air element, i had them look up the numbers for the lock nut wrenches, it's a no go, both numbers where invalid, he tried calling two different places and looked in a honda tools catalog too. i'm sure you guys could have told me it wasn't available anymore.

i just thought why not, i'm already here.
i'm still open for suggestions, i never did get it fixed, i was trying to do it with the handlebars still on but i'm gonna go ahead and take more stuff apart to do a 10 min fix...

oh well